Let’s start with the question : Do bad guys always get the girl? Step into the celluloid world and you will be able to notice that it’s always the tough and ruthless guy that gets the girl. Now get some flashbacks from our school life. Were it not the bad boys that always got the hottest babes? What do you think? You may be a bit confused at these examples. If you can really recollect the days of your school you might be able to notice that the best looking girls in the class loved the bad guys the most. You must have notices many times nice girls with bad guys. Why does it happen? Well, may be it is all too natural. But the important thing is to learn a thing or two from the bad guys.
Most of you may be feeling a little confused over what we are discussing here. We hear that men should acquire the character of a hero and become tough guys. But at the same we are also advised to be in touch with the sensitive sides of our characters. Just think about the man who treats girls with disrespect and is rude to them. The man never gives a call to girls. Soon, you will see that the man happens to create a whole fan club of good looking girls who want to know more about that bad guy and be with him. Why does it happen that the girls are like that?
Bad guys seem to stir interest in girls. It is the interest that attracts girls towards bad guys. Just because bad guys do a lot of interesting things, girls get attracted to them. Bad guys are different and have their own distinct and unusual character. Bad guys go about doing things that they want. They might not respond well. They might not just listen. All of this makes girls interested and the experience of being with the bad guys becomes a really fascinating one. On the other hand, straight guys are quite usual. They do not seem to be interesting because they do not do fascinating things. When you do as others tell you too, it sort of makes you dull and uninteresting.
While straight guys can lack in confidence, bad guys are very confident about what they do. They do not look at the world when they go about doing their own things. They pay no heed to what others are going to think about how they act or what they do. Even when the bad guys are not quite in shape, they attract girls just because they do interesting things.
Girls have always liked to be challenging. Getting a bad guy or making him talk is also a challenge for girls. When you take up a challenging task, you are really curious about what the end is going to be like. That’s why girls as well as women like to accept and meet challenges. So, when girls go for bad guys they hope to find gold of pot at the end of the burrow. For girls, it is like solving mysteries. After they have conquered the challenge and got the bad guy, girls really try hard enough not to let him go. Since the bad guy can walk away just anytime, it creates a lot of mystery in the relationships and girls like to go on this roller coaster ride.
Now when we have discussed quite a lot of traits that bad guys possess and the things they, it’s now time to get to the conclusion. Just try to put together all the facets that you noticed while discussing the topic. Bad boys are characterized by strength of character, high level of confidence and a maverick nature. All of these traits combined turn into sort of a sexiness which girls are sure to like and crave.
Citing the example of bad guys does not in any way mean that we ought to be like them. However, we can surely learn something from what bad guys do. We only need to equip ourselves with the tools that can really help us get a girl and date them. The idea is to have a high level of confidence, excel in whatever you choose to do and just be yourself. That ‘bad boy confidence’ will definitely boost your overall attractiveness. Become a little less available to girls and be deliberate in the things you do. By changing just a few things about your attitude and what you do and how you do can really help boost your attractiveness.
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